Sometimes We Must Be Tough With Others

There are many things in our daily lives that need attention, respect. There comes a point where we cannot take it anymore. Bieng tough with others becomes a priority when you need to establish respect and a timely response. There is a limit on how to get people to respond in a timely manner! 

People who override your decision making process are the ones who need that toughness! 

More responsibility from others towards your feelings must be put in place.  


Sunday Morning Advice 

Everyone is so upset with each other these days. Yet, nobody wants to admit how wrong they are. Of course we are programmed to hate each other. Can we live in Peace? The color of our skin or culture does not identify us as evil people. 

You cannot go around hating a group of people without actually spending quality time with them. Close your eyes for a moment and Reflect on these issues affecting our daily lives. Focusing on other people and trying to keep them in your hands like puppets is the wrong way to push your opinions and Views. Focus on developing your true intelligence.  

This is where the time should be spent. Your future endeavors will come in handy if you focus on your present. Stop hating the world. Right now your anger is out of control. Admit that you are lost in society! You beg for attention, friends and need to do things out of place in order for people to see that you exist. 

Your existence in this community is like a ghost. Nobody can see you! 

Turn Off The Internet

It’s the weekend. The majority of the people are currently logged into the internet. We do know that the internet is very addictive. Everyone in your home is connected to some Social Media platform. My advice for today! Learn how to log off the internet for at least a few hours a day. Spend time with your loved ones, family, friends. Go out to the movies, go to the beach, the mall. Grab some air and breathe. Shutting down is beneficial for you and your health. Turn off the Internet Access! A few hours that you spend without internet will not hurt you at all. Remember everything that has been ignored in your house or home because of the internet addiction.

Group Participation Should Be A Priority

Many people are so consumed by the Social networks that their daily lives are run by the internet. This causes everyone to stay out of touch with reality. In fact everyone belongs to so many groups, especially on Facebook, they do forget one thing. How to participate with the group members. Groups are created for the community. Many groups have rules for a reason and others are open to discussion. There is a specific reason for joining the groups. The best way to stay on top of each group is by activating the notification settings, so that you can receive updates every time a member adds something to the group. It does help if everyone is active, so that the group can build what it was meant in the first place. So, if you belong to a Facebook group. Take an hour and look through your list. check the setting for notifications. Start a conversation by saying Good Morning. Be active! If you are on a Facebook Fan Page, there is a way to join its group. Simply go to the list of pages to find groups or click on the pinned post. Most pages do pin the groups for everyone to join.

Good Luck and Let’s get active in these groups!

Always Keep Your Strength

We are programmed to a bunch of negative information. This negative information always puts us in a position where our strength become weak. No matter what situation we face on a daily basis, we must learn how to maintain our inner strength. Our strength will get stronger as each day goes by. Challenge yourself to change your ways. Be Strong! 

Bullies Are Hiding Behind Friendships

Bullies can be found everywhere. They are not only in Schools, they are people who are very close to you. It can be a person associated with you and your family. Someone who has brought trust. But within time this person can start insulting, verbally abusing you. We may not see it at first until the water in the pot boils over, causing a bigger argument and eventually a fist fight. In this case, the abuser is your best friend, hiding behind the friendship. This is a concern because it will become a situation which is depressive. Best friends and it turns out to be non-existent because they have other plans stored in their system of abuse. This is not fair at all. Friendships are meant to be with each other in good and bad times. Supporting each other in many ways. Keeping a close eye on everyone in your circle is very important, because when you least expect it. They will stab you in the back causing major infliction and pain. The suffering will last a very long time. The recovery process will be very long.

I am the kind of person who is open-minded but keeps an eye open when people get too close to me. In fact, I do not trust anybody. Information that I put on my blog is for the public to read. So in this case the trust is cleared. I know what to share and what not to share among the crowd. Friends are like spies, some enjoy the gossip, the push the button kinds. These people are the ones who come to you with a smile and the doors open, under fine suspicion, these people will never pass muster with me. Bullies cannot stay shut, they will keep going until the person they hurt get pushed to the limit. I do not stay shut to any bully. There are times when silence is the best option. Like cyber bullies, also known as TROLLS. In this case, it is the best option to keep silent. Fighting text with text is just a ridiculous thing to do. Bullies need their own medicine!

Never get upset or depressed over a bully or troll, cyber bully. It is not worth losing your mental stability over stupidity. Intelligence overrides a bullies intentions. Always stay a few steps ahead of the pack in order to be safe.

Parenting 101 – Internet Use vs Children

One quick advice and to the point. 

Parents today are so consumed by the technology advancement that they lack real life comprehension. With so many weird, sexual, criminal activities associated with the usage of the internet. Parents need to learn some common sense. Keep your children away from any and all types of Social Networks. It is for their safety and to make sure that they are not raised by cyber warriors. 

The internet was not created​ for children to spend their valuable time on. As parents, you should also learn how to stay focused on your children more, instead of spending time on Social Networks. 

Your kids come first! Pay ATTENTION TO YOUR KIDS!