Bullies Are Hiding Behind Friendships

Bullies can be found everywhere. They are not only in Schools, they are people who are very close to you. It can be a person associated with you and your family. Someone who has brought trust. But within time this person can start insulting, verbally abusing you. We may not see it at first until the water in the pot boils over, causing a bigger argument and eventually a fist fight. In this case, the abuser is your best friend, hiding behind the friendship. This is a concern because it will become a situation which is depressive. Best friends and it turns out to be non-existent because they have other plans stored in their system of abuse. This is not fair at all. Friendships are meant to be with each other in good and bad times. Supporting each other in many ways. Keeping a close eye on everyone in your circle is very important, because when you least expect it. They will stab you in the back causing major infliction and pain. The suffering will last a very long time. The recovery process will be very long.

I am the kind of person who is open-minded but keeps an eye open when people get too close to me. In fact, I do not trust anybody. Information that I put on my blog is for the public to read. So in this case the trust is cleared. I know what to share and what not to share among the crowd. Friends are like spies, some enjoy the gossip, the push the button kinds. These people are the ones who come to you with a smile and the doors open, under fine suspicion, these people will never pass muster with me. Bullies cannot stay shut, they will keep going until the person they hurt get pushed to the limit. I do not stay shut to any bully. There are times when silence is the best option. Like cyber bullies, also known as TROLLS. In this case, it is the best option to keep silent. Fighting text with text is just a ridiculous thing to do. Bullies need their own medicine!

Never get upset or depressed over a bully or troll, cyber bully. It is not worth losing your mental stability over stupidity. Intelligence overrides a bullies intentions. Always stay a few steps ahead of the pack in order to be safe.


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